I've been listening to a beautiful Christmas song this morning... The lyrics are just wonderful:
All creation had a language, words to say what must be said.
All day long the heavens whispered, signing words in scarlet red.
Some have failed to understand it, so God spoke His final word.
On a silent night in Judah's hills, a baby's cry was heard.
"Glory!" sang the angel chorus! "Glory!" echoed back the night!
Love has come to walk among us. Christ the Lord is born this night...
My prayer is that you all have a blessed and Merry Christmas.
Love,
Bethany Dawn
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Worlds Collide
Thursday, December 10, 2009, 9:45am
For a solid 20 minutes, I have been sitting in a storefront that is still being built. Leaning against the raw brick, unfinished wall, sitting on a stone to keep me off the dirt floor - we are grateful the builders had already attached the metal roof to the building. The rain continues to pour from the heavens, the ground is saturated already, we had rain just two days ago. Sitting so near to the ground, amidst the unending rain, I am overwhelmed by the smell of the earth. Fresh, clean, wet, dirt. It almost reminds me of my Mom's garden.
I'm not the only one taking shelter inside this future-store or boutique. With me is a boy who looks like a college student - clearly late for classes, but with the understandable and acceptable excuse of "the rain came!"
There is a middle aged woman, sitting on a small stone similar to my own, in the middle of this "room." She is either a great faker, or else she has somehow managed to fall asleep while sitting on a stone, surrounded by strangers, in the midst of the thunder crashes. In some ways I'm a bit jealous of the ability she has to sleep just where she has happened to be.
Near to the mama is her taxi driver, who has also decided to close his eyes and try to catch some sleep, sitting on top of his motorcycle.
My taxi driver is under the overhang, just outside our door, as if he's keeping watch for the precise moment this rain will end.
There are several others out there near him, and undoubtedly more in the attached rooms to our particular store. We are a hodge-podge of people, all put together unexpectedly. We listen to the lulling sounds of the rain on the roof and the newly paved road.
Occasionally people will pass by on foot - soaking wet. I wonder why they don't stop and take shelter from the rain. But then I realize that rain is a part of life here. Life doesn't stop when the rains come. And neither do they.
Across the road is Enra, where there is processing and manufacturing of Mahogany, and a large forest within the compound as well. It's surrounded by what looks like a 5 or 6 foot wall. I watched at first in surprise as I saw things falling from or off of that wall. I finally realized that what I saw were sticks and branches. Someone was throwing wood over from Enra. A few minutes later, I saw three children climb over the wall, laughing and dancing in the ever-increasing rain. One of the two girls seemed to take rest under a tall tree. The boy and other girl would occasionally dance, especially when a car would pass by - practicing a new dance move, perhaps? But eventually, life beckoned - the responsibility of the task they had been sent on was remembered and they all started loading up on the sticks and branches they'd collected. And in spite of the thunder, lightening or the rain, they started making their way up the road.
A while later, I saw a woman walking up the hill towards us, carrying a heavy load on her back (likely from her garden). She also had an umbrella in her hand, covering her head. It took just a moment to realize the reason - on top of the large sack she carried on her back, was her young baby. Even though she had hundreds of veggies and wood, she still wanted to protect her baby from the rain, without stopping on her journey to get out of the rain. It was both beautiful and heartbreaking.
By 10:15, I was once again on the back of the motorcycle, on my way to UCBC. It was still sprinkling a bit, but compared to the downpour of the past 50 minutes, it wasn't so bad.
On my mind though are the people I saw while sitting in that room, and the ones I shared the room with. Our worlds met for less than an hour. An opportunity we wouldn't have had if it hadn't rained.
For a solid 20 minutes, I have been sitting in a storefront that is still being built. Leaning against the raw brick, unfinished wall, sitting on a stone to keep me off the dirt floor - we are grateful the builders had already attached the metal roof to the building. The rain continues to pour from the heavens, the ground is saturated already, we had rain just two days ago. Sitting so near to the ground, amidst the unending rain, I am overwhelmed by the smell of the earth. Fresh, clean, wet, dirt. It almost reminds me of my Mom's garden.
I'm not the only one taking shelter inside this future-store or boutique. With me is a boy who looks like a college student - clearly late for classes, but with the understandable and acceptable excuse of "the rain came!"
There is a middle aged woman, sitting on a small stone similar to my own, in the middle of this "room." She is either a great faker, or else she has somehow managed to fall asleep while sitting on a stone, surrounded by strangers, in the midst of the thunder crashes. In some ways I'm a bit jealous of the ability she has to sleep just where she has happened to be.
Near to the mama is her taxi driver, who has also decided to close his eyes and try to catch some sleep, sitting on top of his motorcycle.
My taxi driver is under the overhang, just outside our door, as if he's keeping watch for the precise moment this rain will end.
There are several others out there near him, and undoubtedly more in the attached rooms to our particular store. We are a hodge-podge of people, all put together unexpectedly. We listen to the lulling sounds of the rain on the roof and the newly paved road.
Occasionally people will pass by on foot - soaking wet. I wonder why they don't stop and take shelter from the rain. But then I realize that rain is a part of life here. Life doesn't stop when the rains come. And neither do they.
Across the road is Enra, where there is processing and manufacturing of Mahogany, and a large forest within the compound as well. It's surrounded by what looks like a 5 or 6 foot wall. I watched at first in surprise as I saw things falling from or off of that wall. I finally realized that what I saw were sticks and branches. Someone was throwing wood over from Enra. A few minutes later, I saw three children climb over the wall, laughing and dancing in the ever-increasing rain. One of the two girls seemed to take rest under a tall tree. The boy and other girl would occasionally dance, especially when a car would pass by - practicing a new dance move, perhaps? But eventually, life beckoned - the responsibility of the task they had been sent on was remembered and they all started loading up on the sticks and branches they'd collected. And in spite of the thunder, lightening or the rain, they started making their way up the road.
A while later, I saw a woman walking up the hill towards us, carrying a heavy load on her back (likely from her garden). She also had an umbrella in her hand, covering her head. It took just a moment to realize the reason - on top of the large sack she carried on her back, was her young baby. Even though she had hundreds of veggies and wood, she still wanted to protect her baby from the rain, without stopping on her journey to get out of the rain. It was both beautiful and heartbreaking.
By 10:15, I was once again on the back of the motorcycle, on my way to UCBC. It was still sprinkling a bit, but compared to the downpour of the past 50 minutes, it wasn't so bad.
On my mind though are the people I saw while sitting in that room, and the ones I shared the room with. Our worlds met for less than an hour. An opportunity we wouldn't have had if it hadn't rained.
Christmas-time is here...
With surprise I saw that yesterday was December 15 - or since I am studying French, I should say, "le 15e Decembre."
Without snow or Christmas lights everywhere, it can be hard for some to really see this as "Christmastime," but it still is. Regardless of the advertisements to buy more presents, an abundance of Santas and preparations to decorate the house - it's still Christmastime.
We haven't seen too many decorations - though I'm sure it will come, especially this weekend / next week. Last year we decorated the Christmas tree at the Kasali's on Christmas Eve. The same night that Kassie and I baked for hours on end!
I don't know what we will do to celebrate, this year specifically... We are in our house now without Congolese family members - a lot of displaced Americans. And most are new to Congo, especially during a holiday.
So we have the chance to develop a new tradition, a way of recognizing and focusing on the meaning of this time of the year. What will we do? How will we observe and celebrate and reflect on Christmas as a family, this year?
I don't know.
But my hope is that we will still see this for what it is, even if it doesn't look exactly the same.
It's Christmas.
I've been listening to Christmas music the past two days, maybe as a way to remind MYSELF and to put me into the "spirit." And sometimes, I can hear Mama Furaha singing Christmas songs... They are of course in Swahili, but hearing the tune still takes me to the spirit I'm looking for.
On Sunday, we attended local choir Echo du Salut's concert with a large, well-known choir from Butembo. As the concert opened up, the choir from Butembo sang the Halleluiah Chorus acapella, in Swahili. It was beautiful. Absolutely PERFECT. It was a fantastic way to be reminded of Christmas and to reflect on the power of words, regardless of language.
Joyeux Noel!
(Merry Christmas)
Without snow or Christmas lights everywhere, it can be hard for some to really see this as "Christmastime," but it still is. Regardless of the advertisements to buy more presents, an abundance of Santas and preparations to decorate the house - it's still Christmastime.
We haven't seen too many decorations - though I'm sure it will come, especially this weekend / next week. Last year we decorated the Christmas tree at the Kasali's on Christmas Eve. The same night that Kassie and I baked for hours on end!
I don't know what we will do to celebrate, this year specifically... We are in our house now without Congolese family members - a lot of displaced Americans. And most are new to Congo, especially during a holiday.
So we have the chance to develop a new tradition, a way of recognizing and focusing on the meaning of this time of the year. What will we do? How will we observe and celebrate and reflect on Christmas as a family, this year?
I don't know.
But my hope is that we will still see this for what it is, even if it doesn't look exactly the same.
It's Christmas.
I've been listening to Christmas music the past two days, maybe as a way to remind MYSELF and to put me into the "spirit." And sometimes, I can hear Mama Furaha singing Christmas songs... They are of course in Swahili, but hearing the tune still takes me to the spirit I'm looking for.
On Sunday, we attended local choir Echo du Salut's concert with a large, well-known choir from Butembo. As the concert opened up, the choir from Butembo sang the Halleluiah Chorus acapella, in Swahili. It was beautiful. Absolutely PERFECT. It was a fantastic way to be reminded of Christmas and to reflect on the power of words, regardless of language.
Joyeux Noel!
(Merry Christmas)
Monday, December 7, 2009
Rain
Friday, December 4, 2009
Before leaving the States… Many people asked if it would be the rainy season when I arrived in Beni. I would simply laugh and say, I don’t know! People here tell me that Beni has seasons of rain or sun, but during my time in Beni last year, I never saw it.
It would rain for three days and then we’d have sunshine and no rain for ten. Sometimes we’d have 10 minutes (or 3 hours) in a day and sunshine for the next four. It seemed to happen like this throughout the whole year I was here. “I’m convinced that there are no seasons,” I would proclaim!
Since I’ve gotten to Beni on the 15th of November, it has rained every single day. Sometimes all day long. Sometimes just a quick shower in the morning or for a few hours in the middle of the night...
This morning I woke up to the sound of rain (which I could hear in spite of the earplugs!), around 5am-ish. It continued until nearly 7am. Now at 12:15pm, I’m watching dark clouds approach the school.
I guess there is a rainy season after all. We’re certainly in it.
Before leaving the States… Many people asked if it would be the rainy season when I arrived in Beni. I would simply laugh and say, I don’t know! People here tell me that Beni has seasons of rain or sun, but during my time in Beni last year, I never saw it.
It would rain for three days and then we’d have sunshine and no rain for ten. Sometimes we’d have 10 minutes (or 3 hours) in a day and sunshine for the next four. It seemed to happen like this throughout the whole year I was here. “I’m convinced that there are no seasons,” I would proclaim!
Since I’ve gotten to Beni on the 15th of November, it has rained every single day. Sometimes all day long. Sometimes just a quick shower in the morning or for a few hours in the middle of the night...
This morning I woke up to the sound of rain (which I could hear in spite of the earplugs!), around 5am-ish. It continued until nearly 7am. Now at 12:15pm, I’m watching dark clouds approach the school.
I guess there is a rainy season after all. We’re certainly in it.
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Adjustment
Our journey from Entebbe was a bit more eventful than the one that took us there… Again, it’s a fast exposure to life and the things that complicate it when in Africa. I found most of it entertaining, typical and even comforting (because it was familiar and made me feel at “home,” again), but felt bad for Megan… Not because it was so terrible, but because it is quite a transition to go from the States to traveling by bus in the middle of Uganda.
Our day started at 5am, when we woke up. Two taxis met us at the house at 5:30 to take us to the bus depot. We got there by 6:15 and were loaded onto the bus by 6:45. But even those few minutes were an experience – what with the 15+ men who crowded around our cars to offer help or profess their love to one of us girls. Megan looked at me and asked, "Is it safe to get out?" I only laughed and said of course! They just wanted to help us with the luggage, so that we would pay them some money!
We got out of the car and after haggling about prices to take the bus and prices for the conductor's men (not the ones who came to our car) to load our luggage into it – we get on. By 8:45 we still hadn’t left the parking lot. Finally though, we started to move, only to find two busses ahead of us that were stuck. One was in a deep ditch that had been created by all of the rains the night before, the other had stalled and wouldn’t restart. It seemed like we watched a group of men try to push that bus forward countless times. It would rock forward seemingly far enough, and then it was like they ran out of strength – and it would roll back. But thirty minutes later the stalled bus was pushed out of the lot and the ditch had been filled with dirt. We traveled for about 10 minutes before we had to stop to get gas. We were still in Kampala. But that is when it was decided that our bus wasn’t able to make the 7 hour journey to the border. So we waited a surprisingly short time for the replacement bus to arrive and RE-started our journey at 9:45. We finally left the city of Kampala at 10am, just under 4 hours late.
The bus ride was long, bumpy, hot, and entertaining. I remained amused by everything until about 3pm, when the novelty / hilarity of it started to wear off. We finally reached the border at 5:45 – 15 minutes before it closed! But Honoré and Noé were there to meet us, help us through the customs and get into Congo. That is where we really relied upon them to carry us through the demands of the immigration agents.
The ride into Congo and to Beni took about 2.5 hours… It was a jarring ride – but that’s to be expected when there are no street lights, no pavement and holes the size of tables and TVs in the road.
In filling out the Visa application forms in the States, we are told to indicate that we are visitors and not working or living in Congo. When we were waiting at the border and speaking to the immigration officers, they asked us our professions – we all answered that we are teachers. A few miles down the road from the border, we were stopped at a check point, where the soldier asked us the same question. He was told that we are missionaries.
It’s interesting to see how quickly our identities changed depending on who was asking the question. In a way, all three of those answers are in fact correct. But it’s a shame that certain people need or want to hear certain responses when asking questions. To remember how to jump through the hoops can be an exhausting task!
It’s good to be back in Congo once again. I’ve missed it a great deal and am so happy to be back. Especially after that long journey – I have felt this release or feeling of, “ah, at last I’m here.” It’s good to be back in my second home again.
Work has started right away, of course. I’ve tried to ease into things… But the work is still there. So in a way, I’m running already!
Thank you for your love and prayers. Our students are doing well and gave me such a sweet and warm welcome. It was so strange to stand in front of them in Chapel on Monday morning. It had been over four months ago where I did the same thing… Wishing them success in their exams, telling them I love them, and promising to return again. Well, I am back and expressing to them the greetings of so many of my family and friends. To hear that there are people and churches praying for them in the States – I cannot explain their joy. So thank you.
It has also been exciting to hear them asking about the Kipepeo scholarship program… Soon it will commence so that everyone who has supported a student or part of a student’s school fees – they will soon receive your gifts. Which means that they will soon begin to work! I’m excited to see the progress of the Program and how our beautiful property line has developed.
The internet has been horrifically slow lately. We aren’t sure what the problem is… But when it is working better – I will be sure to upload photos for you all to see.
With love and prayers for peace,
Bethany
Our day started at 5am, when we woke up. Two taxis met us at the house at 5:30 to take us to the bus depot. We got there by 6:15 and were loaded onto the bus by 6:45. But even those few minutes were an experience – what with the 15+ men who crowded around our cars to offer help or profess their love to one of us girls. Megan looked at me and asked, "Is it safe to get out?" I only laughed and said of course! They just wanted to help us with the luggage, so that we would pay them some money!
We got out of the car and after haggling about prices to take the bus and prices for the conductor's men (not the ones who came to our car) to load our luggage into it – we get on. By 8:45 we still hadn’t left the parking lot. Finally though, we started to move, only to find two busses ahead of us that were stuck. One was in a deep ditch that had been created by all of the rains the night before, the other had stalled and wouldn’t restart. It seemed like we watched a group of men try to push that bus forward countless times. It would rock forward seemingly far enough, and then it was like they ran out of strength – and it would roll back. But thirty minutes later the stalled bus was pushed out of the lot and the ditch had been filled with dirt. We traveled for about 10 minutes before we had to stop to get gas. We were still in Kampala. But that is when it was decided that our bus wasn’t able to make the 7 hour journey to the border. So we waited a surprisingly short time for the replacement bus to arrive and RE-started our journey at 9:45. We finally left the city of Kampala at 10am, just under 4 hours late.
The bus ride was long, bumpy, hot, and entertaining. I remained amused by everything until about 3pm, when the novelty / hilarity of it started to wear off. We finally reached the border at 5:45 – 15 minutes before it closed! But Honoré and Noé were there to meet us, help us through the customs and get into Congo. That is where we really relied upon them to carry us through the demands of the immigration agents.
The ride into Congo and to Beni took about 2.5 hours… It was a jarring ride – but that’s to be expected when there are no street lights, no pavement and holes the size of tables and TVs in the road.
In filling out the Visa application forms in the States, we are told to indicate that we are visitors and not working or living in Congo. When we were waiting at the border and speaking to the immigration officers, they asked us our professions – we all answered that we are teachers. A few miles down the road from the border, we were stopped at a check point, where the soldier asked us the same question. He was told that we are missionaries.
It’s interesting to see how quickly our identities changed depending on who was asking the question. In a way, all three of those answers are in fact correct. But it’s a shame that certain people need or want to hear certain responses when asking questions. To remember how to jump through the hoops can be an exhausting task!
It’s good to be back in Congo once again. I’ve missed it a great deal and am so happy to be back. Especially after that long journey – I have felt this release or feeling of, “ah, at last I’m here.” It’s good to be back in my second home again.
Work has started right away, of course. I’ve tried to ease into things… But the work is still there. So in a way, I’m running already!
Thank you for your love and prayers. Our students are doing well and gave me such a sweet and warm welcome. It was so strange to stand in front of them in Chapel on Monday morning. It had been over four months ago where I did the same thing… Wishing them success in their exams, telling them I love them, and promising to return again. Well, I am back and expressing to them the greetings of so many of my family and friends. To hear that there are people and churches praying for them in the States – I cannot explain their joy. So thank you.
It has also been exciting to hear them asking about the Kipepeo scholarship program… Soon it will commence so that everyone who has supported a student or part of a student’s school fees – they will soon receive your gifts. Which means that they will soon begin to work! I’m excited to see the progress of the Program and how our beautiful property line has developed.
The internet has been horrifically slow lately. We aren’t sure what the problem is… But when it is working better – I will be sure to upload photos for you all to see.
With love and prayers for peace,
Bethany
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Uganda
Arriving to Kampala went smooth enough… We said our goodbyes to family at the airport in Chicago, and had a little time to kill before our flight left for London. The flight itself wasn’t the smoothest, but we made it without getting sick, thankfully. With four hours before our connecting flight to Entebbe, we wandered around Heathrow resembling zombies – as we didn’t sleep on that 8 hour flight. Finally though, we got on our flight and 8+ hours later, we landed in Entebbe.
Oh it was clear we were in Africa again by just a few things that hit you in the face right after exiting the plane.
First –we were met with the sweet humidity of the Ugandan air, right next to Lake Victoria. Even though we left the plane at 10pm, we were still surprised at the heat and warmth we found – especially compared to our time in London and Chicago!
Second – instead of having one taxi to meet us at the airport – we were met with two older model sedans… Our luggage (which all arrived seemingly intact) was crammed into the two cars along with the three of us, the drivers and our host, Papa Kawede.
Third – we started our drive from Entebbe into the city of Kampala, which took about 45 minutes. As we drove, our taxi driver commented on the condition of the roads. He told us how he doesn’t think they are safe. The reason? Because of the oncoming traffic – they have such bright lights on their cars now! It blinds him. Moments before, he mentioned the lack of street lights in Uganda and how it’s too dark when driving. But – he finds the brighter lights of other cars to be dangerous.
Fourth – the speed of the car! My gosh, I forgot how people drive in Kampala! We were cruising at a good 80 kilometers per hour (about 50 mph) but would burst up to at least 120 at times – to pass and just pray that we got back into our lane before the coming truck plowed into us. Poor Megan – what an exposure to Africa!
My thought? That the dangerous part of the roads concerns all of the people walking along the side of the street. They walk opposing the traffic , but traffic weaves in and out so much that sometimes the pedestrians have to jump from the side of the road to avoid the cars. That combined with the lack of sidewalks and poor lighting and the speed of the cars... Ah. It was a quick readjustment to life in Africa.
Fifth – we arrived at the Kawede home at just about midnight, Thursday night. It was a long ride, but so comforting to see familiar faces and a familiar place again. In spite of the club across the street – I slept soundly, until about 7am. That was when the rooster that a sister of Mama Lillian had left at the house, started crowing nonstop. The problem with this rooster is not how loud it was or how often it crowed, but how CLOSE it was. This sucker was outside our open window, INSIDE of the house! It was stuck inside for the night and hadn’t been let out into the yard… So it crowed incessantly underneath the window to mine and Megan’s room. Ah. Welcome back :)
Sixth – when the rest of the family awoke, we spent time discussing how healthy and “fat,” Justin is. How I need to eat more in order to become “fat,” again (fat=beautiful) and how brave Megan is to give up a year to live in Congo. We were met with such hospitality and kindness by this family – even though they felt like they had nothing to give – we were greeted into their house and family like we were children who belonged there. That is one more thing that made me realize that once again, I am actually back in Africa. The acceptance and love that is so openly and freely given – is incredible. And it’s genuine.
I will write more soon...
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Back to Beni!
Hello!
I'm writing just before I leave for Congo. I will be heading out on the evening of the 11th, and I am excited to return there. It’s amazing how the past few weeks, days, hours seemed to just fly past me. I’ve been back in the States since the middle of July, for four months now. And it doesn’t seem like it’s been that long… Sometimes it feels like it’s been longer, but for the most part – it seems like I haven’t been here long enough!
Where did the time go? I regret that there were so many people who I was not able to visit or spend enough time with. It’s like I’ve watched the time slip out of my fingertips and I’m leaving already.
But just like the time in the States flew by quickly, I’m sure that my time in Congo will go by as equally fast. This time around, I will only be in the Congo until the end of June. There are commitments that I’d made to be in the States in early July – so I will return again after just seven or eight months away. This time around, my stay in Beni will go by even faster than before.
So I hope that I will be able to spend more time with many of you when I return next summer. My trip could also be cut shorter, depending on my financial support. I am so blessed by all of you who decided to continue supporting my work in the Congo, and those who are joining for the first time this year. I am still amazed at this team which we have formed – together we are making an impact on the lives of so many in the DR Congo. And I thank you for joining with me!
At this point, I have enough funding raised to keep me in the Congo for 4.5 months, until the end of March, 2010. Which means that I have just about 70% raised!! I still need to raise enough support to cover the final three months of my time in Congo – otherwise I will be coming back to the States sooner than expected or planned!
I appreciate your prayers regarding all things. Please continue to pray for the necessary financial support for myself and my teammates, Justin and Megan, who I will travel with on Wednesday. Please pray for us as we travel to Uganda and then a couple of days later, when we travel through that country and into the Congo.
We should arrive to Beni, my second home, on the evening of Saturday, November 14th. We will be met by some of the UCBC staff at the border and travel the next couple of hours through the mountains and along the bumpy dirt roads. After being in Beni for a few days, I should be able to update again!
As always, thank you for your love, support and prayers.
Bethany
I'm writing just before I leave for Congo. I will be heading out on the evening of the 11th, and I am excited to return there. It’s amazing how the past few weeks, days, hours seemed to just fly past me. I’ve been back in the States since the middle of July, for four months now. And it doesn’t seem like it’s been that long… Sometimes it feels like it’s been longer, but for the most part – it seems like I haven’t been here long enough!
Where did the time go? I regret that there were so many people who I was not able to visit or spend enough time with. It’s like I’ve watched the time slip out of my fingertips and I’m leaving already.
But just like the time in the States flew by quickly, I’m sure that my time in Congo will go by as equally fast. This time around, I will only be in the Congo until the end of June. There are commitments that I’d made to be in the States in early July – so I will return again after just seven or eight months away. This time around, my stay in Beni will go by even faster than before.
So I hope that I will be able to spend more time with many of you when I return next summer. My trip could also be cut shorter, depending on my financial support. I am so blessed by all of you who decided to continue supporting my work in the Congo, and those who are joining for the first time this year. I am still amazed at this team which we have formed – together we are making an impact on the lives of so many in the DR Congo. And I thank you for joining with me!
At this point, I have enough funding raised to keep me in the Congo for 4.5 months, until the end of March, 2010. Which means that I have just about 70% raised!! I still need to raise enough support to cover the final three months of my time in Congo – otherwise I will be coming back to the States sooner than expected or planned!
I appreciate your prayers regarding all things. Please continue to pray for the necessary financial support for myself and my teammates, Justin and Megan, who I will travel with on Wednesday. Please pray for us as we travel to Uganda and then a couple of days later, when we travel through that country and into the Congo.
We should arrive to Beni, my second home, on the evening of Saturday, November 14th. We will be met by some of the UCBC staff at the border and travel the next couple of hours through the mountains and along the bumpy dirt roads. After being in Beni for a few days, I should be able to update again!
As always, thank you for your love, support and prayers.
Bethany
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Going back to the Congo
Hi ya'll!
Well it's true. Soon I will be heading back to work again in the DR Congo. We have booked flights to leave on the 11th of November - less than two weeks from now!
I currently only have 50% of the necessary financial support to work in Congo for the next eight months. So while I am in Beni, I will have to continue to raise that support. Otherwise, I will be returning to the States very quickly! After the costs of my visas, flights and health insurance are paid for - I have enough funding to remain in Congo for just two months. So keep me in mind and prayers as I continue to work with the Congolese leadership at UCBC.
There will be a sendoff open house at my parents' house on Saturday, November 7th. Please come out because I would love to see as many people as possible before I go back to Beni. Send me an email for more details - bethany.erickson@gmail.com
Thank you as always for going on this journey with me.
love,
Bethany
Well it's true. Soon I will be heading back to work again in the DR Congo. We have booked flights to leave on the 11th of November - less than two weeks from now!
I currently only have 50% of the necessary financial support to work in Congo for the next eight months. So while I am in Beni, I will have to continue to raise that support. Otherwise, I will be returning to the States very quickly! After the costs of my visas, flights and health insurance are paid for - I have enough funding to remain in Congo for just two months. So keep me in mind and prayers as I continue to work with the Congolese leadership at UCBC.
There will be a sendoff open house at my parents' house on Saturday, November 7th. Please come out because I would love to see as many people as possible before I go back to Beni. Send me an email for more details - bethany.erickson@gmail.com
Thank you as always for going on this journey with me.
love,
Bethany
Friday, October 23, 2009
Breaking the Silence
Hello everyone,
As I prepare to leave the States and return to Congo, the country has been weighing heavily on my heart... This is Congo Week, so there have been a number of articles in papers and online. So I urge you to look at the following articles, petition for the Congo and for her people.
Why we must break the silence. http://allafrica.com/stories/200910230077.html "A global consensus has existed for the past thirteen years. It basically says that it is fine to remain silent in the midst of the deadliest conflict in the world since the Holocaust, while the most unspeakable acts of atrocities are waged on the bodies of women and children in the heart of Africa."
Stopping Rape as a Weapon of War. http://www.hrw.org/en/news/2009/09/18/stopping-rape-weapon-war-congo "The United Nations estimates that 200,000 women and girls have been the victims of sexual violence since 1998. In 2008 alone, nearly 16,000 rapes were reported in Congo. In the east of the country, a battleground for government troops, militias, and foreign armies, sexual violence is practiced systematically by many fighters."
Thank you for caring about the Congolese people... We have the duty to not be silent, to advocate, share about and pray for the people of Congo who face unimaginable atrocities. Their hopes, dreams, fears, desires and families are not so different from ours here in the States. Please petition for the Congo.
With love,
Bethany
As I prepare to leave the States and return to Congo, the country has been weighing heavily on my heart... This is Congo Week, so there have been a number of articles in papers and online. So I urge you to look at the following articles, petition for the Congo and for her people.
Why we must break the silence. http://allafrica.com/stories/200910230077.html "A global consensus has existed for the past thirteen years. It basically says that it is fine to remain silent in the midst of the deadliest conflict in the world since the Holocaust, while the most unspeakable acts of atrocities are waged on the bodies of women and children in the heart of Africa."
Stopping Rape as a Weapon of War. http://www.hrw.org/en/news/2009/09/18/stopping-rape-weapon-war-congo "The United Nations estimates that 200,000 women and girls have been the victims of sexual violence since 1998. In 2008 alone, nearly 16,000 rapes were reported in Congo. In the east of the country, a battleground for government troops, militias, and foreign armies, sexual violence is practiced systematically by many fighters."
Thank you for caring about the Congolese people... We have the duty to not be silent, to advocate, share about and pray for the people of Congo who face unimaginable atrocities. Their hopes, dreams, fears, desires and families are not so different from ours here in the States. Please petition for the Congo.
With love,
Bethany
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
CONGO WEEK
Around the country, people will be holding events and talking about the DR Congo. This year it is being held October 18th - 24th.
Congo Week is organized as a way to raise awareness of the plight of the Congolese people: the atrocities that are committed against the country's citizens by their own leadership, and things that can be done to change the future for the country.
Please take time to learn more about Congo, talk to people, share what you know, and pray for the DR Congo and the Congolese people.
Here is the link to the Friends of the Congo's website for Congo Week 2009.
Thank you as always for your love and support of the DR Congo.
peace,
Bethany
ps - here is an article on BBC News about the unrest that is being increased due to mineral companies' lust for the resources in Congo
Congo Week is organized as a way to raise awareness of the plight of the Congolese people: the atrocities that are committed against the country's citizens by their own leadership, and things that can be done to change the future for the country.
Please take time to learn more about Congo, talk to people, share what you know, and pray for the DR Congo and the Congolese people.
Here is the link to the Friends of the Congo's website for Congo Week 2009.
Thank you as always for your love and support of the DR Congo.
peace,
Bethany
ps - here is an article on BBC News about the unrest that is being increased due to mineral companies' lust for the resources in Congo
Monday, October 5, 2009
Building update
Here are photos that Grant Haun and others have sent to me recently... They speak of all the progress still taking place at UCBC, which is for the students!
It's incredible to see how much has been done to the buildings, since I left in July. And I can't wait to see it all in person, when I return soon! Enjoy the photos :)
This first photo shows how the construction workers actually build up the walls... The wood slabs and sticks are scaffolding. The bucket in the hands of the man in the middle, holds concrete, the mortar for the bricks.
This second photo shows the men lifting up the braces for the roofing of the Welcome Center. This is not easy work!
Here is a close-up of the work those men did on the structure of this building! 
The next several photos show different views of the Community Center... And the progress that is being made! 
To think we were breaking ground for this very building at the beginning of November, 2008! That was when we started to dig the foundation... In December the first of the foundation went it. January and February of 2009, we started building up the walls... And in July they were preparing the floor for concrete! 
To see this building nearly ready for classes for this Academic year is incredible! And so exciting! I love to see how God provides... He really is providing and at the perfect time as well. Without this building, we would not have the needed classroom space for all of our current students and their different faculties of study, not to mention the new class of 60 students coming in this year!
Here is the Community Center with the first Academic Building in the background on the far right. 
This is inside the Community Center... Concrete floors and students holding classes already! Notice that the windows aren't finished yet, and neither is the door. But there are walls and a floor, not to mention the roofing is up! So the students meet in this new classroom, which is a whole lot better than meeting on the outside porch (where they had been).
The back side of the Community Center (this was taken less than two weeks after the ones above)... Can you notice the changes made in that amount of time? Compare to the sixth photo above! :)
Here is an inside view of the roofing and braces for our new building.
And this is a view of the hallway inside the Community Center... We are doing this Community Center in two stages. The first is the more practical side. When this phase is completed, it will have 16 classrooms and offices. But this is only for one half of the building. The second is the "community," part. We will be building an auditorium that will seat 1,600 people! In addition, there will be a radio station on the top section of the building. This hallway will divide the building into two - separating the classrooms from the auditorium. For now, it will just be a hallway connecting all of the rooms and offices.
There is the Community Center. Still under construction... But making progress and creating the chance for dreams to become reality for the people of the DR Congo. With love,
Bethany
Friday, September 18, 2009
Becky and Jon's wedding
This may be my favorite picture from Becky and Jon's wedding on August 15, 2009.
I love my parents! (and my whole family)
:)
love,
Bethany
Thursday, September 17, 2009
"Uneasy Congo"
Hey ya'll,
The title of my post is from this link that connects to a showcase on photos taken towards the end of last year and the beginning of 2009. This photographer was in Congo at the height of the most recent tension and conflict in and around Goma.
It was good to come across this article... Sometimes it seems like the world is totally blind and deaf to Congo... That one of the most beautiful countries in the world, goes totally unnoticed. But in the past week I've been reminded that people do care, that Congo is being talked about.
Last week, I traveled to Durham, NC and from there to Washington, DC. I went with my colleague Justin and we spent the majority of the time talking about Congo Initiative, UCBC and the students.
On Thursday the 10th, there was a panel discussion at American University, in Washington, DC. Justin was the last of four to speak - and it was a great event! The first three - two MA students from AU and a policy analyst from Africa Faith & Justice Network - pretty much talked about the historical, political and current problems in Congo. They presented the challenges that are facing Congo and her people, and it really set the stage for Justin to be able to openly share about CI and UCBC. It was a great opportunity for people in another part of the States to hear about Congo, and CI-UCBC's work and potential.
Afterwards I spoke with several girls who are interested in teaching at UCBC in the future and also with a man who works with the lobbyist group Friends of the Congo.
And there two people who just returned from an extended period of time in Goma. They are working on a documentary which follows the lives of two young boys - boys that had been recruited to be child soldiers. They aren't finished yet editing the video yet, but it was interesting to hear from them what they are doing in the Congo, and to just find more people interested and invested in the Congo. Their website is www.discoverthejourney.org.
Overall it was a wonderful opportunity to spread the word!
So seeing this article today, in addition to the events of last week - encouraged me. Maybe more people do care about Congo, than I thought before. Maybe Congo is touching hearts.
It certainly has gripped mine.
Peace,
Bethany
The title of my post is from this link that connects to a showcase on photos taken towards the end of last year and the beginning of 2009. This photographer was in Congo at the height of the most recent tension and conflict in and around Goma.
It was good to come across this article... Sometimes it seems like the world is totally blind and deaf to Congo... That one of the most beautiful countries in the world, goes totally unnoticed. But in the past week I've been reminded that people do care, that Congo is being talked about.
Last week, I traveled to Durham, NC and from there to Washington, DC. I went with my colleague Justin and we spent the majority of the time talking about Congo Initiative, UCBC and the students.
On Thursday the 10th, there was a panel discussion at American University, in Washington, DC. Justin was the last of four to speak - and it was a great event! The first three - two MA students from AU and a policy analyst from Africa Faith & Justice Network - pretty much talked about the historical, political and current problems in Congo. They presented the challenges that are facing Congo and her people, and it really set the stage for Justin to be able to openly share about CI and UCBC. It was a great opportunity for people in another part of the States to hear about Congo, and CI-UCBC's work and potential.
Afterwards I spoke with several girls who are interested in teaching at UCBC in the future and also with a man who works with the lobbyist group Friends of the Congo.
And there two people who just returned from an extended period of time in Goma. They are working on a documentary which follows the lives of two young boys - boys that had been recruited to be child soldiers. They aren't finished yet editing the video yet, but it was interesting to hear from them what they are doing in the Congo, and to just find more people interested and invested in the Congo. Their website is www.discoverthejourney.org.
Overall it was a wonderful opportunity to spread the word!
So seeing this article today, in addition to the events of last week - encouraged me. Maybe more people do care about Congo, than I thought before. Maybe Congo is touching hearts.
It certainly has gripped mine.
Peace,
Bethany
Friday, September 4, 2009
just a few photos
Hey ya'll,
I finally was able to download the last of my pictures from Beni! So here is the link to my photos, if you'd like to see them!
With love,
Bethany
PS - this photo is of me and Becky at her bridal shower, a week after I returned to the States!
I finally was able to download the last of my pictures from Beni! So here is the link to my photos, if you'd like to see them!
With love,
Bethany
PS - this photo is of me and Becky at her bridal shower, a week after I returned to the States!
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
what next?
Since coming back to the States, I've had many people ask me, "What will you do now?" Or others will ask, "When do you go back to Congo?" And some have said, "Are you really going back there?" :) That one might be my favorite... Because yes, I do intend to go back!
I feel called to return there again. When I go back, I will stay for the school year, and come back here again for the summer months. I am excited to return, but for now, am enjoying time with family.
Since the craziness of my sister's wedding is now over (which was beautiful and a lot of fun!), I now hope to reconnect with people and friends in a better way. and really sit down and talk with people.
So, I will be returning to the DR Congo once again. This time, I know what to expect - just how long the flight really is, the living situation, the language, the food, the lifestyle, community expectations and of course people!
And I'm going knowing that there is a lot more work to be done. UCBC is still a new university, this will be our third year. People are hearing more and more about the "new" type of education that students receive in our classrooms. Students are coming from outside North-Kivu, even outside of Western Congo... Some from Uganda and even Kenya. It's amazing to see the hope in the faces of students and families... People who have experienced so much hurt, pain and loss. But still cling to joy and the promise of a brighter future.
Also in this new year, I will have added responsibilities. Well, official ones! :) This year I will also be UCBC's Volunteer Coordinator, working with Justin in that role, as he used to be the one who did all of that work. It is really important for the running of the university and the sake of the students and outside community - that all of our international staff and volunteers come to Congo prepared, ready to adjust and open. My job will be to help facilitate that.
I feel a responsibility to try to help make a brighter future possible. I feel led to work and serve there. And I am honored to do so. I pray that doors will continue to be opened for the university and for the students who are working so hard there. They are investing so much into their studies - hoping for a chance at peace, happiness and security.
Thank you for going with me on this journey. More soon...
with love,
Bethany
I feel called to return there again. When I go back, I will stay for the school year, and come back here again for the summer months. I am excited to return, but for now, am enjoying time with family.
Since the craziness of my sister's wedding is now over (which was beautiful and a lot of fun!), I now hope to reconnect with people and friends in a better way. and really sit down and talk with people.
So, I will be returning to the DR Congo once again. This time, I know what to expect - just how long the flight really is, the living situation, the language, the food, the lifestyle, community expectations and of course people!
And I'm going knowing that there is a lot more work to be done. UCBC is still a new university, this will be our third year. People are hearing more and more about the "new" type of education that students receive in our classrooms. Students are coming from outside North-Kivu, even outside of Western Congo... Some from Uganda and even Kenya. It's amazing to see the hope in the faces of students and families... People who have experienced so much hurt, pain and loss. But still cling to joy and the promise of a brighter future.
Also in this new year, I will have added responsibilities. Well, official ones! :) This year I will also be UCBC's Volunteer Coordinator, working with Justin in that role, as he used to be the one who did all of that work. It is really important for the running of the university and the sake of the students and outside community - that all of our international staff and volunteers come to Congo prepared, ready to adjust and open. My job will be to help facilitate that.
I feel a responsibility to try to help make a brighter future possible. I feel led to work and serve there. And I am honored to do so. I pray that doors will continue to be opened for the university and for the students who are working so hard there. They are investing so much into their studies - hoping for a chance at peace, happiness and security.
Thank you for going with me on this journey. More soon...
with love,
Bethany
Monday, August 10, 2009
still here...
Hello everyone!
I just wanted to briefly update you all... Letting you know that I am still in the States! I've been a little hidden in some ways, because I don't have a cell phone, I've been working with my dad, for UCBC and on my sister's wedding... So when I have time to make a phone call - I've just been falling asleep!
But not to worry - my mom, and my family are all taking good care of me. I've been cared for and treated like a daughter, and not a mother. Which is always fun!
I love being here with my family, and reconnecting with friends as well. But it's had a few challenging times as well. Adjusting to the culture, lifestyle and expectations of people here in the US isn't quite as easy as it was for me to adjust to life in the Congo. But I praise God for his grace and the understanding of people around me as I am in this transition period!
I will write again soon, I hope! Please continue to pray for Beni and UCBC - the students will have their second week of exams starting tomorrow morning! Thank you!
with love,
Bethany
I just wanted to briefly update you all... Letting you know that I am still in the States! I've been a little hidden in some ways, because I don't have a cell phone, I've been working with my dad, for UCBC and on my sister's wedding... So when I have time to make a phone call - I've just been falling asleep!
But not to worry - my mom, and my family are all taking good care of me. I've been cared for and treated like a daughter, and not a mother. Which is always fun!
I love being here with my family, and reconnecting with friends as well. But it's had a few challenging times as well. Adjusting to the culture, lifestyle and expectations of people here in the US isn't quite as easy as it was for me to adjust to life in the Congo. But I praise God for his grace and the understanding of people around me as I am in this transition period!
I will write again soon, I hope! Please continue to pray for Beni and UCBC - the students will have their second week of exams starting tomorrow morning! Thank you!
with love,
Bethany
Sunday, July 12, 2009
praise God for hot showers and gas stoves!
Hey ya'll,
I just wanted to let you know that I have safely made it back to the States! My flight landed in Chicago late on Wednesday night, and I arrived back home in my parents' house at about 2am that night!
It was a long journey - but a successful one! And incredibly enough - my luggage made it here with me! I wasn't planning on it, especially when we were about to leave Entebbe, Uganda, and a crew person came up to me on the plane... "Are you Ms Erickson?" "Yes." "Did you check luggage?" Me: "Yes, I did. Is there a problem?" Him: "Oh no problem. Do you have the luggage claim tickets?" Me: "Yes... Here they are. What's wrong?" Him: "Nothing is wrong. You luggage just didn't get entered earlier..."
Good grief! I thought for sure that my suitcases wouldn't be in Chicago when I landed that night... But they were! Praise God! :)
So now I'm here in Wisconsin. While in the States I intend to help as much as possible with my sister's upcoming wedding... Continue on work for UCBC (including an Annual Report and working on Visitor information!)... Spend time with family, friends and supporters... Maybe get a little sun (I spent over 9 months in Congo, and got no tan!)... Rest... Work... And raise support to go back to the DRC for another year!
Please email me if you would like to get together while I'm back in the States. I should be here until the end of September. And as of right now - I don't have a mobile phone. So email is best!
Thank you for your prayers and support... You have no idea how much they touched me and carried me. Please continue to pray for the Congo, for UCBC, for the community there and for me.
Thank you. And I'll update again soon!
love,
Bethany
I just wanted to let you know that I have safely made it back to the States! My flight landed in Chicago late on Wednesday night, and I arrived back home in my parents' house at about 2am that night!
It was a long journey - but a successful one! And incredibly enough - my luggage made it here with me! I wasn't planning on it, especially when we were about to leave Entebbe, Uganda, and a crew person came up to me on the plane... "Are you Ms Erickson?" "Yes." "Did you check luggage?" Me: "Yes, I did. Is there a problem?" Him: "Oh no problem. Do you have the luggage claim tickets?" Me: "Yes... Here they are. What's wrong?" Him: "Nothing is wrong. You luggage just didn't get entered earlier..."
Good grief! I thought for sure that my suitcases wouldn't be in Chicago when I landed that night... But they were! Praise God! :)
So now I'm here in Wisconsin. While in the States I intend to help as much as possible with my sister's upcoming wedding... Continue on work for UCBC (including an Annual Report and working on Visitor information!)... Spend time with family, friends and supporters... Maybe get a little sun (I spent over 9 months in Congo, and got no tan!)... Rest... Work... And raise support to go back to the DRC for another year!
Please email me if you would like to get together while I'm back in the States. I should be here until the end of September. And as of right now - I don't have a mobile phone. So email is best!
Thank you for your prayers and support... You have no idea how much they touched me and carried me. Please continue to pray for the Congo, for UCBC, for the community there and for me.
Thank you. And I'll update again soon!
love,
Bethany
Monday, July 6, 2009
leaving... on an old propeller plane!
Hey ya'll... Tomorrow morning, I'll be leaving Congo - I'll get into Uganda, spend a few hours there... Spend the night in Entebbe, and leave for London at 7 in the morning on Wednesday! Somehow - I'll land on US soil that same night (although very late!)... It'll be a long day! But I am very excited to see my family - at least those who come to meet me at the airport!
More soon
Love from Congo
Bethany
More soon
Love from Congo
Bethany
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Saturday, June 20, 2009
life
Hello friends...
I'm sorry for taking so long to update... It's been over three weeks! But I’ll be back in Wisconsin in just about two weeks – can you believe it??? In many ways I’m sad to be going, but at the same time, oh so excited!!! It’ll be great to be with my family, see friends, have some of Mom’s home-cooked food, to be able to cook on a gas stove (!), to swim, to drive on a paved, non-bumpy road, to take hot showers from the faucet, to eat Dad's pancakes on Saturday mornings, to laugh with my sisters, practice some of my Swahili with friends and to see how tall Nathan has grown since I left in September!
But it’ll be hard to leave too… I’ve really started to develop a life here in Beni. With work, the community, family, friends. My time here has been more than just doing missionary work (I heard some call me a missionary! How is that possible??). Working at UCBC has been my job. Living and managing the home has been like what I’d have to do in Chicago – you need to keep your house clean, people must be fed... It’s just required that I learn how to deal with employees who help keep my home in order and also help to balance the relationships of all of the different people living under the same roof! The community has become my own – where I can have friendships and relationships that have depth and value, beyond that of work or missions or UCBC.
It’s been exciting, difficult and fun to experience all of these changes, in my new home… And even though I know where my homes are in the States (Door County, Chicago, Bethany Beach… Anywhere else??), I love knowing that I have and am at home here, in Beni, DRC. I praise God for the relationships and friends He’s given me here. I praise Him for the work and changes we’re seeing in and through the work being done at UCBC. I praise God for the students that I interact with and those I can call my friends. I praise Him for giving me the ability and gift to know that I am home and with family, even here in the Congo!
So for now, I think I'll stop writing... With the promise to write again. :) Hopefully sooner than later!
Greetings from so many here in Beni...
with love,
Bethany
I'm sorry for taking so long to update... It's been over three weeks! But I’ll be back in Wisconsin in just about two weeks – can you believe it??? In many ways I’m sad to be going, but at the same time, oh so excited!!! It’ll be great to be with my family, see friends, have some of Mom’s home-cooked food, to be able to cook on a gas stove (!), to swim, to drive on a paved, non-bumpy road, to take hot showers from the faucet, to eat Dad's pancakes on Saturday mornings, to laugh with my sisters, practice some of my Swahili with friends and to see how tall Nathan has grown since I left in September!
But it’ll be hard to leave too… I’ve really started to develop a life here in Beni. With work, the community, family, friends. My time here has been more than just doing missionary work (I heard some call me a missionary! How is that possible??). Working at UCBC has been my job. Living and managing the home has been like what I’d have to do in Chicago – you need to keep your house clean, people must be fed... It’s just required that I learn how to deal with employees who help keep my home in order and also help to balance the relationships of all of the different people living under the same roof! The community has become my own – where I can have friendships and relationships that have depth and value, beyond that of work or missions or UCBC.
It’s been exciting, difficult and fun to experience all of these changes, in my new home… And even though I know where my homes are in the States (Door County, Chicago, Bethany Beach… Anywhere else??), I love knowing that I have and am at home here, in Beni, DRC. I praise God for the relationships and friends He’s given me here. I praise Him for the work and changes we’re seeing in and through the work being done at UCBC. I praise God for the students that I interact with and those I can call my friends. I praise Him for giving me the ability and gift to know that I am home and with family, even here in the Congo!
So for now, I think I'll stop writing... With the promise to write again. :) Hopefully sooner than later!
Greetings from so many here in Beni...
with love,
Bethany
Monday, May 25, 2009
lightening flash
Sunday was a beautiful day. I got up a little after 6, so that I could go to the 7am English service at church. April preached and frankly, it’d been since about November or December since I attended this service… Well it’s just so dang early! But it was good to go and reconnect with the people who attend the service and praise in English!
Anyway, April, Meredith and I went to church while the boys stayed at home sleeping / resting… When we got back around 9, they hadn’t cooked so I started preparing breakfast for all of us with Meredith. It was a hot morning – especially sitting in the sun cutting veggies for the eggs!
But then, in the early afternoon, I could see dark clouds coming closer and closer. At one point Justin said, “listen.” And we could hear the coming rain, on the leaves of the trees in the palm forest. Moments later, as the sky grew darker we saw a flash of lightening. And a split second later, a crack of thunder that was the loudest I’d heard since being in Congo. It was a sharp pop and crackle, probably striking a nearby tree! And it was so loud. A minute or so later, we saw another flash light up the afternoon sky – quickly followed by another loud electric thunder strike. Then the rain came… And it just poured1
It was a beautiful twist to the day…
Going to the market a few hours later was an adventure as well… Sliding around on the back of a moto in the streets of Beni was an experience. But thankfully, with the exception of a little mud on my legs – no problems!
Next, I need to learn to drive a moto on my own, buy one, so that I can do this on my own! ;) hahah
Friday, May 22, 2009
Beautiful Beni
Well... siku mingi (many days) since I last wrote...
But since writing, I read two articles about the DR Congo - one which Baraka suggested to me. It's titled, "There is No Congo," and it's really a surprising and difficult article to read.
There is another though, which was written a month later by another author - and I found it to be much more uplifting, encouraging and positive. It's also on ForeignPolicy.com and is called, "68 Million Congolese Can't Be Wrong." The article talks about why Congolese love their country - in spite of the challenges, difficulties and problems, outlined in the first article.
I hope you will read and reflect on these articles...
The DR Congo... Beni is worth fighting for. It should not be wiped off the map or disregarded. This land are her people deserve a chance to fight for themselves. What can we do to help?
I've finally uploaded some more photos... Enjoy!
With love
Bethany
But since writing, I read two articles about the DR Congo - one which Baraka suggested to me. It's titled, "There is No Congo," and it's really a surprising and difficult article to read.
There is another though, which was written a month later by another author - and I found it to be much more uplifting, encouraging and positive. It's also on ForeignPolicy.com and is called, "68 Million Congolese Can't Be Wrong." The article talks about why Congolese love their country - in spite of the challenges, difficulties and problems, outlined in the first article.
I hope you will read and reflect on these articles...
The DR Congo... Beni is worth fighting for. It should not be wiped off the map or disregarded. This land are her people deserve a chance to fight for themselves. What can we do to help?
I've finally uploaded some more photos... Enjoy!
With love
Bethany
Monday, May 4, 2009
the UN and a little moto ride
Greetings from Beni!
It's a hot, sunny day here today... At least 95 degrees, in my opinion!
This afternoon I went from town to UCBC... I'd been there in the morning, but had to spend some time in Beni and at the house... So around 2pm I got on a moto for a ride underneath the hot afternoon sun.
My taxi driver started asking me questions (in Swahili of course) about my experience here and I told him that I really like Congo... That I think it's a beautiful country. And asked him what he thought about his country. He told me that it's not good, especially because there is so much hunger... He said that is the big problem that Congo has - hunger. So I asked him what can he / we do to change that... And he said work hard...
A few moments later several different UN (MONUC) trucks passed us on the road... I then asked him what he thinks of MONUC. I asked, "What do they do? Do they help with hunger? Do they give food? What do they do?" He (of course) could not say he saw MONUC helping or making a difference... He even went on the say that MONUC is taking from the country, from the people, and making hunger even worse.
This is something I'm hearing more often, and find myself affirming it... What in the world is the UN doing in Congo?
These thoughts were fresh in my mind after I arrived at UCBC... I pulled up BBC News on my computer and read the following article, which had a good section about MONUC in Congo. The author says that "the international community lacks a strategy for fixing this failing state." I think that is crystal clear in Goma - where the streets are lined with UN Soldiers, NGO workers and cars from both that clog traffic and polute the air.
Here is the article.
I am not saying that the UN should leave Congo. And neither is this article. But it's discouraging to see a huge operation like the UN, in a country... And yet you have to ask, "what is the result? What are they doing? Why are they here, again?"
It's pretty sad, actually... We watch the millions (billions) of dollars that the UN has for this operation get tossed into the wind.
Ah, please pray for this country. And those who have their hands in it. I pray that the men, women, NGOs and whatever other organizations / interests involved, would develop / have morals and honor in the way they act...
with hope,
Bethany
It's a hot, sunny day here today... At least 95 degrees, in my opinion!
This afternoon I went from town to UCBC... I'd been there in the morning, but had to spend some time in Beni and at the house... So around 2pm I got on a moto for a ride underneath the hot afternoon sun.
My taxi driver started asking me questions (in Swahili of course) about my experience here and I told him that I really like Congo... That I think it's a beautiful country. And asked him what he thought about his country. He told me that it's not good, especially because there is so much hunger... He said that is the big problem that Congo has - hunger. So I asked him what can he / we do to change that... And he said work hard...
A few moments later several different UN (MONUC) trucks passed us on the road... I then asked him what he thinks of MONUC. I asked, "What do they do? Do they help with hunger? Do they give food? What do they do?" He (of course) could not say he saw MONUC helping or making a difference... He even went on the say that MONUC is taking from the country, from the people, and making hunger even worse.
This is something I'm hearing more often, and find myself affirming it... What in the world is the UN doing in Congo?
These thoughts were fresh in my mind after I arrived at UCBC... I pulled up BBC News on my computer and read the following article, which had a good section about MONUC in Congo. The author says that "the international community lacks a strategy for fixing this failing state." I think that is crystal clear in Goma - where the streets are lined with UN Soldiers, NGO workers and cars from both that clog traffic and polute the air.
Here is the article.
I am not saying that the UN should leave Congo. And neither is this article. But it's discouraging to see a huge operation like the UN, in a country... And yet you have to ask, "what is the result? What are they doing? Why are they here, again?"
It's pretty sad, actually... We watch the millions (billions) of dollars that the UN has for this operation get tossed into the wind.
Ah, please pray for this country. And those who have their hands in it. I pray that the men, women, NGOs and whatever other organizations / interests involved, would develop / have morals and honor in the way they act...
with hope,
Bethany
Monday, April 13, 2009
whoops!
So, I know I wrote beforehand, a little bit about Women's Day. Which was in March. Well, here is what i wrote for CI... My thoughts / views / reflections on Women's Day... A month late! ;)
Bright flashes of color. Bursts of song. Dancing down a busy street. Shouts of joy. Many smiles. Lots of laughter. Pride.
March 8th was International Women’s Day. This day had been spoken about to me, since I arrived in September. A day of celebration for all women. A day set aside to highlight the beauty, strength and grace of women. A day of a few gifts for some, a few more kind gestures towards women – mothers and wives and friends – but it was especially a day to express and feel appreciation.
The main street of Beni started lining with groups of women around 10 AM on this Sunday, groups representing different churches, organizations, families, employment or friends. To show not only their femininity but also deep connection to their respective group – most wore clothing made from the same fabric. Each group of cheering women wore patterns different from the next group. Distinctions were made not only by clothing, but by banners or signs that were carried at the front of the group. And depending on what group they belonged to, dictated the different songs sung and chants made by the women.
UCBC had a group of about 30 women; teachers, students and staff all joined together as UCBC Women. Joining the group brought cheers – each woman who came to add to the solidarity of our group, her presence was rejoiced. Our group formed, we started our march towards the Mayor’s home on the other side of Beni.
The sun was so strong that day. It was easily over 90 degrees, with an occasional slight breeze and not a cloud in sight. There were thousands of women walking in the hottest time of the day, between 10 AM and 2 PM. Almost as a surprise to us, though it was encouraging as well, were the medical staff going up and down the long line of women – ready to carry out the weak or those overexposed to the sun. Besides a little sunburn for some of the wazungu, the UCBC Women were strong. We walked, marched and danced for several hours – slowly making our way through town. The entire time we were singing songs of unity and praise to God in Lingala, French, Swahili and English. We shouted out chants of pride in and love for our university – UCBC.
And then the energy changed. Suddenly, instead of a few bystanders watching as they went about their business in town, the streets were lined with crowds of spectators – in some places 10 or 12 deep on both sides of the street. The cars were stopped from driving on this portion of the road. Children were in trees watching the women parade past them, people were on top of vans and in the doorways of storefronts. And our pace quickened and we proceeded with even more joy, pride and volume. We were nearing the place where the Mayor and his wife waited to acknowledge each group of women. We held our heads high and nearly skipped as we marched in perfect time to the cheers we called out.
The Mayor gave a nod of recognition, we received a wave from his wife, shouts from the crowd and continued on to the end of the public display of the women representing UCBC on this special day.
We were greeted by male students and UCBC staff, children and husbands who were waiting for us at the end of the procession. We congratulated one another and realized just how dehydrated we all were from the time singing, shouting and walking in the sun! So we began a short, five minute walk to the house of one of our students, where a party and feast was waiting for us. We talked, ate, laughed, danced and shared about the importance and beauty of women. And after many photos were taken – we all headed home to the responsibilities waiting for us – children, husbands, parents, cooking and homework. But for a few hours, UCBC Women, all women in Beni, were on top of the world.
Pride is a powerful thing. If women have pride in themselves and self-respect, a nation will see drastic impact. Women in Congo celebrate their value and strength and power and beauty maybe just one day a year. My prayer is that they will see it every day. And when they do, Congo will be a truly transformed nation.
Thank you for reading...
Love,
Bethany
Friday, April 10, 2009
Good Friday
Somehow, it's Easter time already. I feel like it snuck up on me... But regardless of if I was aware or ready - it's here. Easter - the time to remember sacrifices made for us... A gift given that can never be repaid... But should never be forgotten.
I hope you have a blessed day, Good Friday, Saturday and Easter Sunday.
I praise God because of what He has done and that because of it, I am free!
I hope you have a blessed day, Good Friday, Saturday and Easter Sunday.
I praise God because of what He has done and that because of it, I am free!
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
a long time coming
Hello friends
Well, things are going pretty good here in Beni! I've been a little ill, but nothing to be concerned about... However, I'm sorry for not being in better communication for the past few weeks. I spent a lot of time at the house, resting and sleeping! But thank God I have strength again and am able to work once again!
So, here are my latest Photos that I hope you will look at! Becky, I did my best to label more people / things in the photos... Although, it's certainly not all of them!
Hope you enjoy this little glimpse into life, as of late, in Beni!
I will post again soon...
Love to you,
Bethany
Well, things are going pretty good here in Beni! I've been a little ill, but nothing to be concerned about... However, I'm sorry for not being in better communication for the past few weeks. I spent a lot of time at the house, resting and sleeping! But thank God I have strength again and am able to work once again!
So, here are my latest Photos that I hope you will look at! Becky, I did my best to label more people / things in the photos... Although, it's certainly not all of them!
Hope you enjoy this little glimpse into life, as of late, in Beni!
I will post again soon...
Love to you,
Bethany
Thursday, March 19, 2009
tulikula chakula mengi sana
Hi all,
Well it's been an interesting week... Saturday was spent in Oicha, for a board meeting... I think it was my first time there - where I didn't go and greet people that I know. I received a phone call that night from Uncle Tito, "Habari ya Beni? Iko mzuri? Uliafika Oicha???" Basically - "How is beni, is it good? Were you in Oicha???" Ohhh... He knew!!! I felt terrible...
The next day was spent almost entirely in the kitchen.... Belinda doesn't come to cook / help us at the house on Sunday, so it's up to us to fend for ourselves. That morning I cooked breakfast
for everyone... Tried to get April to wash the dishes, but we ran out of water (weird). After that, it was time for me to cook lunch... After that the water was back on and we were almost entirely out of dishes! So... April washed. I think I tried to bathe, but something else happened, and then we went to church at UCBC for the 3pm service... And after that, it was time to start on dinner!!! And then I had to boil water for tea / coffee, and of course heat up enough water for everyone to bathe... But it was a good day. I certainly was not alone - in fact, Angie cooked dinner and I hardly helped... It's just incredible what percentage of the day was spent in front of the hot charcoal stove! :)
Yesterday something weird happened... The shutter button on my camera broke off. So.... Unless I use a pen to press where the stem of the button used to be - I can't take pictures with my camera!!! Such a strange thing to happen.... Oh well!!
The photo is of Festo and Aunt Irene. I'll try to upload more photos next week and write more... And more in depth, soon... :)
I was able to renew my visa in Goma - so since my first one just expired at the beginning of March... I can legally be here for another six months! And the visa was significantly more expensive to get it IN CONGO than it was to get it from Washington DC... Whatever. Ah politics.
Ok... Much love to you all. I pray that things are going well for each of you... And my goal for tonight is to respond to old, (some that are REALLY OLD) emails!
love,
Bethany
Well it's been an interesting week... Saturday was spent in Oicha, for a board meeting... I think it was my first time there - where I didn't go and greet people that I know. I received a phone call that night from Uncle Tito, "Habari ya Beni? Iko mzuri? Uliafika Oicha???" Basically - "How is beni, is it good? Were you in Oicha???" Ohhh... He knew!!! I felt terrible...
The next day was spent almost entirely in the kitchen.... Belinda doesn't come to cook / help us at the house on Sunday, so it's up to us to fend for ourselves. That morning I cooked breakfast
for everyone... Tried to get April to wash the dishes, but we ran out of water (weird). After that, it was time for me to cook lunch... After that the water was back on and we were almost entirely out of dishes! So... April washed. I think I tried to bathe, but something else happened, and then we went to church at UCBC for the 3pm service... And after that, it was time to start on dinner!!! And then I had to boil water for tea / coffee, and of course heat up enough water for everyone to bathe... But it was a good day. I certainly was not alone - in fact, Angie cooked dinner and I hardly helped... It's just incredible what percentage of the day was spent in front of the hot charcoal stove! :)Yesterday something weird happened... The shutter button on my camera broke off. So.... Unless I use a pen to press where the stem of the button used to be - I can't take pictures with my camera!!! Such a strange thing to happen.... Oh well!!
The photo is of Festo and Aunt Irene. I'll try to upload more photos next week and write more... And more in depth, soon... :)
I was able to renew my visa in Goma - so since my first one just expired at the beginning of March... I can legally be here for another six months! And the visa was significantly more expensive to get it IN CONGO than it was to get it from Washington DC... Whatever. Ah politics.
Ok... Much love to you all. I pray that things are going well for each of you... And my goal for tonight is to respond to old, (some that are REALLY OLD) emails!
love,
Bethany
Friday, March 13, 2009
Such heart...
Hello everyone!
So today I read an article that Le Beni sent to me... And wow - it is so powerful! It's about the CEO of a hospital, who is approaching the declining economy in a different, and surprising way. He employs over 8,000 people - and recognizing that they would have to cut the jobs of many of the lower-income employees... He asked the entire staff what could be done to save jobs. And the people responded. Here is the article.
I found it to be a very uplifting and incredible article. I really hope you will enjoy it.
This week we wrapped up the exams... It's been a long two weeks for everyone, especially the students. Most had six or seven exams, some had as many as ten! So they are tired and ready for a small break, before resuming classes on Monday!
Things here in Beni are going well... Currently it just started pouring rain, there is lightning and booming thunder... I hope my house isn't flooding!!! The grounds outside of UCBC certainly are...
But besides the weather, the area remains calm, peaceful and hopeful. Hope is powerful, and it is evident that we all cling to it here.
Have a great weekend!
love,
Bethany
So today I read an article that Le Beni sent to me... And wow - it is so powerful! It's about the CEO of a hospital, who is approaching the declining economy in a different, and surprising way. He employs over 8,000 people - and recognizing that they would have to cut the jobs of many of the lower-income employees... He asked the entire staff what could be done to save jobs. And the people responded. Here is the article.
I found it to be a very uplifting and incredible article. I really hope you will enjoy it.
This week we wrapped up the exams... It's been a long two weeks for everyone, especially the students. Most had six or seven exams, some had as many as ten! So they are tired and ready for a small break, before resuming classes on Monday!
Things here in Beni are going well... Currently it just started pouring rain, there is lightning and booming thunder... I hope my house isn't flooding!!! The grounds outside of UCBC certainly are...
But besides the weather, the area remains calm, peaceful and hopeful. Hope is powerful, and it is evident that we all cling to it here.
Have a great weekend!
love,
Bethany
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Red Curry Chicken!!
In an effort to have some food that is a reminder of home... Tonight, Angie and I are cooking... Thai food!
Whoo hoo!
I'm so excited... I hope it turns out... Belinda is on the way to the market to buy a chicken, that I hopefully will not have to butcher (haha, yeah right - that's what men are for!!)... And then after meetings this afternoon, I'll head home to start cooking.
Praise God for Goma - where I got coconut milk! And for Angie - who brought red and yellow curry paste! YUM!!!!!!!
On a completely different note - here also is a photo of me and one of our students, John. He is a Theology student and probably one of the kindest people I've ever met.
Happy Tuesday!!
love,
Bethany Dawn
Whoo hoo!
I'm so excited... I hope it turns out... Belinda is on the way to the market to buy a chicken, that I hopefully will not have to butcher (haha, yeah right - that's what men are for!!)... And then after meetings this afternoon, I'll head home to start cooking.
Praise God for Goma - where I got coconut milk! And for Angie - who brought red and yellow curry paste! YUM!!!!!!!
On a completely different note - here also is a photo of me and one of our students, John. He is a Theology student and probably one of the kindest people I've ever met.
Happy Tuesday!!
love,
Bethany Dawn
Saturday, March 7, 2009
beauty
Greetings from the DR Congo! We are currently in the middle of semester exams... The students are working so hard in order to pass all of their tests. Many have six exams, some have up to ten! The amount of work that these students are doing is incredible... We are hoping it'll pay off with successful test scores!
Tomorrow is 8th of March – Women’s Day, in Congo! I love that they have a national holiday here, for the women of the country. We got clothes made and literally almost all of the women will gather tomorrow in town… Marching, running, walking, dancing to the mayor’s house… Where I think we’ll dance some more! This day is observed by husbands and fathers buying clothes and giving gifts, boys and men cooking food for their families. I’m told that since “every day is the man’s day,” the women get one a year where we are pampered!
So to all of the women I know and love… HAPPY WOMAN’S DAY! I hope that you know you are being celebrated, all the way in Congo, by women throughout the country! Especially to the Congolese women outside of Congo, you are loved and remembered today. AND.... I know a remarkable woman who's birthday is on March 8th - Leah, Happy Birthday!!!! :) A day early!
Here are some of my thoughts about Congo... These feelings and words just flowed out of my fingertips this morning - before spending several hours at the market! :) I had to decide what to buy, then go to the market, to buy the food, that the men will use to cook tomorrow - for us women. Hilarious! Thanks guys! ;)
I feel like I have a responsibility to speak. But how do I speak? And what exactly do I say? And who will listen?
I’m just so touched by where I am and the people that I am encountering. Really, this is a gorgeous country! I am daily amazed at the natural beauty of it – it’s always green here, the grass is never brown or dying, there are so many bright flowers and plants, there are so many birds and the sky sometimes just fills with thunderstorms. Apart from the natural beauty of this place is the extreme beauty of the people.
In my mind, if people ever had a right to become ugly, to become mean, untrusting, or even hateful – those people would be the majority of Africans. And out of Africa, you take people from this region, the Great Lakes – and there is Rwanda, Burundi, Congo, and Sudan, even – not to minimize any other countries, but these have seen a lot a cruelty from people. And let me narrow it down even more, to Congo, specifically. Here is a country that was exploited and raped, just like the majority of other African countries during the colonization of the continent. But the exploitation has continued for a century. The raping of the country by other countries still continues. And it still flows down onto her people – the people are allowing their country to be destroyed – with the hope that it will bring them something positive in the future. Just hoping that by signing contracts with China or allowing Uganda to have a presence in the northeast – things will improve for the people. But Congo continues to be taken advantage of, even in 2009.
I’m not even talking about the harm that is being done to the Congolese people. Men and women who have witnessed things most would only be able to see in the worst of nightmares… Children who have done things because their only other choice was death… Old women who instead of receiving respect, are disrespected in the worst degree…And babies who will never know their parents, or why they have an incurable disease… Each day the Congolese watch as someone takes advantage in one shape or form – stealing resources or squashing the future of a bright-eyed young girl.
And yet. That isn’t the end, even though the people here would have every right to be bitter, suspicious and even just flat-out mean – they aren’t.
This country amazes me. Especially what I’ve seen in the eastern part of Congo. In spite of all of the hurt, the damage and even the fears – there is joy. There is happiness. There is still love.
Love for the family. Love for community. Joy at young marriages and happiness at the birth of a new baby boy. There is still hospitality – the welcoming of complete strangers into a close-knit community. The white faces who, over 100 years ago started so much of the pain that this country still must deal with, are welcomed here. Where it would be totally acceptable to have rejection and distrust, there are open arms and praises to God, for bringing someone new into the lives of the souls who are here.
These are just some of the reasons why I love this country. I did not ever expect to see people who have faced so much, still have so much love and peace in their hearts. Even enough to welcome a young woman from the USA.
I cannot walk away from this country.
Love from Congo,
Bethany
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Why is this reality?
Here is an article I read today...
Shedding light on things like what we saw in Goma, and stories we hear occasionally... It is a horrible reality that many women and communities face here. My heart seems to stop every time I hear a new story or news article - even though what's said is not exactly new. My hope is that I will never become numb to the pain, suffering and shame that is inflicted on the helpless. I must not become used to it.
"Despite the presence in the region of the largest U.N. peacekeeping mission in the world, no one has been able to stop the systematic rape of the Congolese women."
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/02/21/opinion/21herbert.html?_r=1&emc=eta1
I thank God that there are articles being written for the public to read. I pray that one day, enough people will take notice of the DR Congo and in noticing, begin to take action.
Please continue to pray for the Congo. For the women and children of this country. For the leaders and for the future.
God bless,
Bethany
Shedding light on things like what we saw in Goma, and stories we hear occasionally... It is a horrible reality that many women and communities face here. My heart seems to stop every time I hear a new story or news article - even though what's said is not exactly new. My hope is that I will never become numb to the pain, suffering and shame that is inflicted on the helpless. I must not become used to it.
"Despite the presence in the region of the largest U.N. peacekeeping mission in the world, no one has been able to stop the systematic rape of the Congolese women."
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/02/21/opinion/21herbert.html?_r=1&emc=eta1
I thank God that there are articles being written for the public to read. I pray that one day, enough people will take notice of the DR Congo and in noticing, begin to take action.
Please continue to pray for the Congo. For the women and children of this country. For the leaders and for the future.
God bless,
Bethany
Thursday, February 19, 2009
a few photos
Hey ya'll
I finally uploaded photos from last month and this month. They are on my Picasa website - right here!
Enjoy them...
love,
Bethany
I finally uploaded photos from last month and this month. They are on my Picasa website - right here!
Enjoy them...
love,
Bethany
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
The hope to survive
Monday, February 9, 2009 did not start out like a normal day. The day before is when the “irregularity” began. We moved out of the house that had been my home for the past four months. That Sunday was a very difficult day for me. For some people in the house, the moving of the wazungu was a surprise and disturbing. So with that shock and even hurt, came strong words and even stronger emotions. However, we still moved on Sunday and that night was spent sleeping in a new house that we hope can soon become home.
Even the next day, Monday, we were all better able to accept that this move, though difficult for all of us right now – is a necessary one. UCBC is growing, and very fast! Part of the growing pains we will have to go through, is giving up some of the things we had – in order to make way for more people to join us very soon.
So, that Monday, I woke up in a new house – made sure that my new little family had breakfast, packed my bags, and was surprised when I returned to the kitchen table and Justin started to sing, “Happy birthday to you…” Haha – I must be getting older – I had forgotten it was my birthday!
We went to school, without our things for the trip – thinking we’d leave early afternoon. But in the course of the next two hours – we had our flight time change three times – first we thought it was at 1 pm, then we were told it was at 9:30, then 11 and then 2pm – we got to the airport at 1:15 – only to find that the flight WAS IN FACT at 1pm, like we’d originally thought… So the pilots were waiting for us to board. Hilarious. :)
It was a quick flight to Goma – just under an hour. And we arrived to cool weather. The first few days of our time in Goma it was COLD! I was shocked to be so cold one night, that as I was sitting outside for a few minutes, my teeth were chattering and I had goosebumps all over me! Who would have thought I’d be so cold in the Congo?
But our time in Goma was very good. It wasn’t always easy though. We spent a lot of time at HEAL Africa, where we met so many women with horrific stories to tell. Some women had been violated in the worst ways… So badly that they can only wait for fistula surgery to have a hope at being repaired. Some women were recovering from their 6th surgery, because the first ones had been unsuccessful.
Please read the following with discretion – it’s not easy material, but I’ve tried to be as sensitive as I can with the details.
One woman had seen her husband and all of her children murdered, before those same eight men assaulted and brutally raped her. She was left with literally nothing and nowhere to go – at least no safe place to go. So now she lives at one of HEAL Africa’s programs – helping other women to heal – physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
Another was only a young girl when she was attacked. She came to HEAL Africa as a shell of a girl. The things she had experienced and the extreme physical pain that was left for her to shoulder – was so much for a girl of eleven. But now, a few years later – she is so full of joy and love. She comes to speak to and support the girls and women who are where she was – hurting, afraid, upset and alone. She gives some of the life and joy that she herself received.
Most women find themselves abandoned by their husbands and also sometimes by their families, when they are raped. They are seen as outcasts and no longer worthy. Out of all of the stories I heard and women I had met – there was only one woman who was still supported by her husband. This man is at home, caring for their 5 year old daughter – while he sent his wife to Goma, to HEAL Africa, so that she can have the fistula surgery to repair her and hopefully make her feel like a woman again. God bless that man for loving his wife, even after she had been so severely hurt, demoralized and shamed!
If you don’t know much about HEAL Africa and what they do – please go to their website at www.healafrica.org
So a lot of our time was spent at HEAL Africa itself – and we stayed with the directors of the Hospital, at their beautiful place along Lake Kivu. Talk about opposites! That place was like a haven… A place that was so gorgeous it really provided a chance to escape from the horrors seen at the hospital
It really was very clear there, probably even more than it’s been in Beni – that Congo is full of contrasts and contradictions.
However, it was good to see the girls who work at HEAL Africa again. They had come to visit us in Beni in November – and it was such a joy for me to spend time with them. They really welcomed me with open arms – and gave me some of the community I’ve missed from girlfriends and sisters. It was encouraging to be able to just speak with them – and since they are from the USA and also work for an incredible organization, they could relate to me and some of the struggles I’ve been facing.
So that part of our trip, even though the majority of our time spent there was to learn, work and just observe… That part of the trip was personally very fulfilling and rewarding. And it also seemed to solidify relationships and strengthen our connection. I praise God for their presence and support.
The last day or so spent in Goma, I was eagerly anticipating my return to Beni. Being separated from the students, friends and the community was not very easy. If nothing else, the week away from Beni allowed me to really see things from a different light.
We are so fortunate in Beni. I am so blessed in Beni. Blessed by the presence of God, the community of students, the red clay soil, the love of family and friends in the area, the minimal military presence and the good homemade food!
Monday morning, when I was going to UCBC on the back of a taxi – I was so happy. Just to see the familiar sights all around me, the roads were not crowded, and I was greeted by cheerful waves from people who recognize and know me within the community.
The time away really gave me a chance to recognize the incredible blessings we have in Beni. We are so fortunate, and I was happy to return
While in Goma, we were able to meet with a friend of the family who had fled his home with his wife… A number of events led to the fleeing of his home and country which he loves – his brother was killed without reason, and his wife was threatened. But now that they are hiding – they only taste bitterness. And fear. The husband feared so much for his life, and for his wife – that now he cannot find anything positive to say about his country. He believes that he has nothing but enemies in Congo, and that this country is run by the devil himself. Because of the hurt that they have suffered, they are living in total fear and hatred. Instead of clinging to the people who love them, they have isolated themselves and their only company is fear. It has consumed them.
I’ve been wrestling with how much pain is inflicted on others… Willingly and unknowingly… The pain that we cause others intentionally and also accidentally. But the deliberate hurt is what I’ve really been struggling with. What gives someone the right to hurt, harm and destroy lives? And why don’t people rise up against the things they see? What makes us stay silent?
A lyric to a song has been playing in my head over and over, “Tell me how come people see and do not speak?” In a way, this song had been tormenting me for a few days…
But a friend sent me a verse that I saw this morning and it really touched me so deeply (Thank you Susan!). It’s exactly what I needed to read this morning.
Proverbs 31:8-9 – “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy.”
Regardless of why people stay silent, I don’t have to. I can speak the stories I hear, remember the faces I’ve met – and share the experiences with others. Perhaps we all have a responsibility to not remain quiet – but to defend the broken, the exhausted, the innocent, the brokenhearted, the destitute, the forgotten, the lost, the widows and the children.
That being said, I am attaching a link of the latest report from Human Rights Watch on the DR Congo. This came out on Friday, and it is not easy reading. So you don’t have to read it, and if you do, please read the report with caution – regardless, please pray. We had feared for the safety of the civilians of the Congo, when the operation was launched in January to remove the FDLR from the country. We greatly need prayers for those who live in the villages, who are unable to escape from the hatred of the FDLR. So many defenseless people are caught between the armies with no way out… And nobody is there to defend them.
So please continue to pray.
My heart broke many times this past week in Goma. And even again as I read the report from HRW yesterday. But if we are not awakened to the atrocities of life – how can we remove them?
I believe that these things not only break my heart – but that they break the heart of God as well.
Please continue to pray for the DR Congo, for the people, the leaders and the defenseless. Pray that we would be used to bring about change, through UCBC – even if it’s just one student at a time, so that we can begin to change the mentality of people… one step towards changing the attitude and operation of the country. And please pray that leaders would be raised up, people to fight for the helpless.
I am so thankful for the hope that we have. Hope in Jesus Christ. Hope in the future that our students have, and the promise that they carry. Hope that one day things will improve – and be so good. We cling to hope. Without hope – I think we would submit to the evil in this country, the evil in this world. But in spite of the horrors of life, there is still hope seen in the eyes of people. Hope in the women at HEAL Africa. Hope in the hearts of our students and the children in Beni. We have hope. This is home for so many and it is so deeply loved. We aren’t ready to give up home, therefore we hope.
Thank you,
Bethany
Friday, January 23, 2009
what now?
Hello all!
I don't know how much of the news you can / do keep up with, especially about the DR Congo... But today we are receiving news that the rebel leader of the CNDP, Laurent Nkunda, has been captured and is being held in Rwanda.
Here is a link to the BBC news article: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/7846339.stm
On Tuesday, several thousand Rwandan military came across the border at several places including Goma, and headed towards Rutshuru. The CNDP have joined forces with them, and the FARDC are not opposing them. They are in Congo to catch the Interahamwe, the Hutu soldiers responsible for the Rwandan genocide in 1994. The people around Goma an anxious - will the foreign troops be able to help? Will they capture the right people, or will peaceful Hutu farmers in that area be harassed or worse?
We've been told that the parliament in Kinshasa has reacted strongly against this deal by the negotiating team. The parliament was not consulted before President Kabila signed the agreement: overnight, what was first tagged as, ‘observers and advisors’ has turned into 5,000 troops. We first were informed that there would be about 2,000 Rwandan troops but fears that the number would be larger, seem to be true. Please pray for justice, and for protection for innocent and helpless people.
Way up north in Beni, Nord-Kivu - we are not experiencing the same as those around Goma and Rutshuru. We have children walking to school, some are sent home for arriving too late, mothers are still working in their shambas (gardens), fathers are still going to work in town, or looking for work. Life is still pretty normal. Sure, there are the occasional skirmishes with the “law,” but overall, Beni is quiet.
But we are not above the concern for our neighbors in the south; the uncertainty of this offensive has left many of us questioning the good this could bring. Will it help and protect the innocent? Will it bring the Interahamwe to justice? Or will more innocent lives act as currency for this long-lasting struggle to just LIVE?
This country is full of so many beautiful and valuable resources, but is lacking in infrastructure and direction. People are dying of Malaria, an easily treatable disease – which has touched even me! Medicines are not that expensive, and they are fast-acting, but they cost more than what most can afford. One of our students was sent to the hospital yesterday – she was so hot, it frightened me. Her skin was turning red from her very high fever, and yet she was shivering. This young woman most likely has a high degree of Malaria. But not many are as fortunate as she, to be taken to a hospital – when most do not live near enough to a clinic or hospital. And even if they do, the meds can cost more than a week’s wages. There are educated people – without a chance to get a job at all, much less in their field of study. This country is starving, on top of some of the richest soil in the world.
Here is another link, to an article on the BBC about the difficulty to get employment in the DR Congo – it has a lot of historical information, which might be helpful as well. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/7824870.stm
A day does not go by where I’m not asked about my family and friends, the financial crisis in the US (and world, really), and (especially since Tuesday), what will Obama do for the Congolese? It’s exciting to see a new chapter of American politics (leadership), begin. I think it’s healthy for a regular and smooth change-over of power. Otherwise – I think we’d find ourselves with leaders and dictators like Mugabe (president of Zimbabwe), Mobutu or worse.
In fact, here is another link to another article on BBC news, about the impact of George W Bush on Africa. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/7831460.stm - Pretty interesting!
I was happy to see the class that was displayed by President and Mrs. Obama as they kindly and (I hope) respectfully waved goodbye to former President and Mrs. Bush. It allowed me to think that this could be a new and positive beginning for the next four years of politics in America. But then again, another politician is in the white house, not the Pope. When I’m asked about Obama and what will he do in Africa – I wonder. Will he do anything? How many people, around the world, might be disappointed by him and his administration, after singing his praises? So my desire is that we not place too much in this one man, this one team… And even the opposite, that we not distrust him / them too much. But if we keep our hope and trust in the Lord, then He will carry us and the President, through the next four (and even more) years.
Hope. That is something that the Congolese live off of. That is something that we cling to. We must have hope. Hope for change, hope for the future, hope for something better. But with hope, we also must have action. So we hope, and pray that something can be done.
Ok well I think I’ve written a fairly long enough reflection for now… Thank you for reading. Thank you for thinking of me, and praying for me. Thank you for sending me emails. I am touched by the love that I receive from my loved ones outside of Congo.
With love,
Bethany
I don't know how much of the news you can / do keep up with, especially about the DR Congo... But today we are receiving news that the rebel leader of the CNDP, Laurent Nkunda, has been captured and is being held in Rwanda.
Here is a link to the BBC news article: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/7846339.stm
On Tuesday, several thousand Rwandan military came across the border at several places including Goma, and headed towards Rutshuru. The CNDP have joined forces with them, and the FARDC are not opposing them. They are in Congo to catch the Interahamwe, the Hutu soldiers responsible for the Rwandan genocide in 1994. The people around Goma an anxious - will the foreign troops be able to help? Will they capture the right people, or will peaceful Hutu farmers in that area be harassed or worse?
We've been told that the parliament in Kinshasa has reacted strongly against this deal by the negotiating team. The parliament was not consulted before President Kabila signed the agreement: overnight, what was first tagged as, ‘observers and advisors’ has turned into 5,000 troops. We first were informed that there would be about 2,000 Rwandan troops but fears that the number would be larger, seem to be true. Please pray for justice, and for protection for innocent and helpless people.
Way up north in Beni, Nord-Kivu - we are not experiencing the same as those around Goma and Rutshuru. We have children walking to school, some are sent home for arriving too late, mothers are still working in their shambas (gardens), fathers are still going to work in town, or looking for work. Life is still pretty normal. Sure, there are the occasional skirmishes with the “law,” but overall, Beni is quiet.
But we are not above the concern for our neighbors in the south; the uncertainty of this offensive has left many of us questioning the good this could bring. Will it help and protect the innocent? Will it bring the Interahamwe to justice? Or will more innocent lives act as currency for this long-lasting struggle to just LIVE?
This country is full of so many beautiful and valuable resources, but is lacking in infrastructure and direction. People are dying of Malaria, an easily treatable disease – which has touched even me! Medicines are not that expensive, and they are fast-acting, but they cost more than what most can afford. One of our students was sent to the hospital yesterday – she was so hot, it frightened me. Her skin was turning red from her very high fever, and yet she was shivering. This young woman most likely has a high degree of Malaria. But not many are as fortunate as she, to be taken to a hospital – when most do not live near enough to a clinic or hospital. And even if they do, the meds can cost more than a week’s wages. There are educated people – without a chance to get a job at all, much less in their field of study. This country is starving, on top of some of the richest soil in the world.
Here is another link, to an article on the BBC about the difficulty to get employment in the DR Congo – it has a lot of historical information, which might be helpful as well. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/7824870.stm
A day does not go by where I’m not asked about my family and friends, the financial crisis in the US (and world, really), and (especially since Tuesday), what will Obama do for the Congolese? It’s exciting to see a new chapter of American politics (leadership), begin. I think it’s healthy for a regular and smooth change-over of power. Otherwise – I think we’d find ourselves with leaders and dictators like Mugabe (president of Zimbabwe), Mobutu or worse.
In fact, here is another link to another article on BBC news, about the impact of George W Bush on Africa. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/7831460.stm - Pretty interesting!
I was happy to see the class that was displayed by President and Mrs. Obama as they kindly and (I hope) respectfully waved goodbye to former President and Mrs. Bush. It allowed me to think that this could be a new and positive beginning for the next four years of politics in America. But then again, another politician is in the white house, not the Pope. When I’m asked about Obama and what will he do in Africa – I wonder. Will he do anything? How many people, around the world, might be disappointed by him and his administration, after singing his praises? So my desire is that we not place too much in this one man, this one team… And even the opposite, that we not distrust him / them too much. But if we keep our hope and trust in the Lord, then He will carry us and the President, through the next four (and even more) years.
Hope. That is something that the Congolese live off of. That is something that we cling to. We must have hope. Hope for change, hope for the future, hope for something better. But with hope, we also must have action. So we hope, and pray that something can be done.
Ok well I think I’ve written a fairly long enough reflection for now… Thank you for reading. Thank you for thinking of me, and praying for me. Thank you for sending me emails. I am touched by the love that I receive from my loved ones outside of Congo.
With love,
Bethany
Thursday, January 15, 2009
the end of a long week...
Hello Family and friends!
Tomorrow is a holiday, so today is the end of the "work week! "
We will probably still work... But I wanted to send an update... Let ya'll know that UCBC continues to have classes, Beni is calm, and I continue to be stretched.
I'll try to write more on that later ;)
But for now - here are some photos for you to see!
http://picasaweb.google.com/bethany.erickson/TheEndOfAYearAndTheStartOfAnother#
love,
Bethany
Tomorrow is a holiday, so today is the end of the "work week! "
We will probably still work... But I wanted to send an update... Let ya'll know that UCBC continues to have classes, Beni is calm, and I continue to be stretched.
I'll try to write more on that later ;)
But for now - here are some photos for you to see!
http://picasaweb.google.com/bethany.erickson/TheEndOfAYearAndTheStartOfAnother#
love,
Bethany
Monday, January 5, 2009
Mwaka mupia mwema!
Happy New Year - 2009 !
Hello! I write this at the end of our Christmas vacation. Today is Monday, January 5, and classes resume again on Wednesday. We have had a good break…lots of cooking, cleaning, washing, playing cards, eating, talking, laughing, watching American football on TV, walking, playing soccer and resting.
Christmas was a time of family, food and fellowship at the house. We went to church on Christmas morning, after getting up early to cook, after staying up super late on Christmas Eve baking! We came home and cooked some more and had a great time with many members of the Kasali family.
We went to Oicha a few times to visit family… Every time there has been so enjoyable – lots of laughter and many memories were made.
New Years Eve we were all in bed before 12am, but spent the evening together talking and listening to all of the shouting and music outside. New Years Day we had a relaxing morning and went to church in the afternoon at UCBC. Afterwards we visited a few people in Beni and went home to share a meal together.
The next day, we were in Oicha again for a wedding celebration. Actually it was the send off party for the bride... An expensive trend but one that most families are doing now. However, it was a lot of fun to be there with everyone.
Luke has returned from London – we missed him, but aren’t jealous of the cold weather he had to deal with for a week! He returned on Saturday and that night we spent time thanking God for 2008 and sharing thoughts about the past / expectations for the future, for 2009.
Yesterday after church (yep, we’ve been going to church a lot, what with these holidays!), we returned home to see a yard full of guys… Many cousins between 14 and 20 were in the yard… And soon there was a 5 on 5 match of soccer… There are about six newly planted, small trees in the yard… I saw a few get smashed, I wonder how many will survive these football games? :)
Before church yesterday (service was in the afternoon), Mama Kassie and I spent the morning washing our clothes, talking and preparing lunch. Man oh man, hand washing clothes is no joke!! It was a good time though, just to sort of chill, be outside, be productive, but also that it was an enjoyable time.
So today, it’s back to UCBC to do a little bit of work and preparation for the re-start of classes this week. I don’t think I have to teach until Monday, but I know I should get something together for what we’ll go over in class… Ah wow, I’m still a bit surprised when I remember that I’m teaching now ;)
Anyway, I wanted to update now, because it's been about a week since I was online... And wanted to let ya'll know some of the things that have been going on! :) I'll write again soon... And plan to upload some of the photos from the last month or so, as well!
Love,
Bethany
Hello! I write this at the end of our Christmas vacation. Today is Monday, January 5, and classes resume again on Wednesday. We have had a good break…lots of cooking, cleaning, washing, playing cards, eating, talking, laughing, watching American football on TV, walking, playing soccer and resting.
Christmas was a time of family, food and fellowship at the house. We went to church on Christmas morning, after getting up early to cook, after staying up super late on Christmas Eve baking! We came home and cooked some more and had a great time with many members of the Kasali family.
We went to Oicha a few times to visit family… Every time there has been so enjoyable – lots of laughter and many memories were made.
New Years Eve we were all in bed before 12am, but spent the evening together talking and listening to all of the shouting and music outside. New Years Day we had a relaxing morning and went to church in the afternoon at UCBC. Afterwards we visited a few people in Beni and went home to share a meal together.
The next day, we were in Oicha again for a wedding celebration. Actually it was the send off party for the bride... An expensive trend but one that most families are doing now. However, it was a lot of fun to be there with everyone.
Luke has returned from London – we missed him, but aren’t jealous of the cold weather he had to deal with for a week! He returned on Saturday and that night we spent time thanking God for 2008 and sharing thoughts about the past / expectations for the future, for 2009.
Yesterday after church (yep, we’ve been going to church a lot, what with these holidays!), we returned home to see a yard full of guys… Many cousins between 14 and 20 were in the yard… And soon there was a 5 on 5 match of soccer… There are about six newly planted, small trees in the yard… I saw a few get smashed, I wonder how many will survive these football games? :)
Before church yesterday (service was in the afternoon), Mama Kassie and I spent the morning washing our clothes, talking and preparing lunch. Man oh man, hand washing clothes is no joke!! It was a good time though, just to sort of chill, be outside, be productive, but also that it was an enjoyable time.
So today, it’s back to UCBC to do a little bit of work and preparation for the re-start of classes this week. I don’t think I have to teach until Monday, but I know I should get something together for what we’ll go over in class… Ah wow, I’m still a bit surprised when I remember that I’m teaching now ;)
Anyway, I wanted to update now, because it's been about a week since I was online... And wanted to let ya'll know some of the things that have been going on! :) I'll write again soon... And plan to upload some of the photos from the last month or so, as well!
Love,
Bethany
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